How not to toast a girl
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Posted by Felix Okoli on March 31, 2009 at 04:11:47:
One can't really say that there is a standard way or template by which guys may ask a lady for a date but in all, there are a basic things we ought not to do. Nigerians are different from others and it would be helpful if we can actually read the minds of the girls or women you would want to go out with before taking the first step. I've compiled a list of what not to do when you want to toast a girl;- Be a stranger: Ladies may love strangers or easily fall for a guy they hardly know just for the fact that he is a new face and may very well change her life, but it is too much of a risk for the guy if he is not known at all by the girl. In most cases, the girl may say no. Even if you are a stranger, at least let her know something about yourself first by your actions. It maybe the kind of friends you relate with, the kind of drink you take or the kind of food you eat or your dressing. If your lifestyle matches hers, she would want to get to know you.- Use a template - Many guys particularly young men are used to using a common style of choice of words when they want to ask a girl out. At times, they get it from the movies or from friends or the internet, girls may pretend that they don't know where you got your line from. Although it helps when you are already in a relationship with her, but if you use it on the first day, she wouldn't see you as unique and may see you as a player and may just want to play along but will not take you serious.- Don't ask her out: - Ok, your presence has been felt and she may have indicated that she wants to get to know more about you, that may very well be the best time to ask her out. Delay may send the wrong signals to her. Maybe you like her, maybe you don't. If you really want to toast her, you need to do it when your chances are high and not waste time on it.- Talk a lot: - Ladies don't really like guys that talk a lot, they may prefer to keep you just as a friend but not as her boyfriend. It is ok for the girl if her friends gossip a lot but when it is a guy, they prefer the one that seldom does and the one that mostly says what he means.
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One can't really say that there is a standard way or template by which guys may ask a lady for a date but in all, there are a basic things we ought not to do. Nigerians are different from others and it would be helpful if we can actually read the minds of the girls or women you would want to go out with before taking the first step. I've compiled a list of what not to do when you want to toast a girl;- Be a stranger: Ladies may love strangers or easily fall for a guy they hardly know just for the fact that he is a new face and may very well change her life, but it is too much of a risk for the guy if he is not known at all by the girl. In most cases, the girl may say no. Even if you are a stranger, at least let her know something about yourself first by your actions. It maybe the kind of friends you relate with, the kind of drink you take or the kind of food you eat or your dressing. If your lifestyle matches hers, she would want to get to know you.- Use a template - Many guys particularly young men are used to using a common style of choice of words when they want to ask a girl out. At times, they get it from the movies or from friends or the internet, girls may pretend that they don't know where you got your line from. Although it helps when you are already in a relationship with her, but if you use it on the first day, she wouldn't see you as unique and may see you as a player and may just want to play along but will not take you serious.- Don't ask her out: - Ok, your presence has been felt and she may have indicated that she wants to get to know more about you, that may very well be the best time to ask her out. Delay may send the wrong signals to her. Maybe you like her, maybe you don't. If you really want to toast her, you need to do it when your chances are high and not waste time on it.- Talk a lot: - Ladies don't really like guys that talk a lot, they may prefer to keep you just as a friend but not as her boyfriend. It is ok for the girl if her friends gossip a lot but when it is a guy, they prefer the one that seldom does and the one that mostly says what he means.
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Re: How not to toast a girl
Posted by Sunday Emmanuel
on March 15, 2010 at 06:23:39:
i want you people to show me or give me a lady i love so that it will be my wife, good lovely darling and God fearing wife.